When I began this journey it was at the encouragement of my Dom at the time. I knew what to write. I would write of our stories and our experiences. Anyone who has followed me knows that ended badly and sadly. The loss of him has been devastating, but also liberating in some strange way. … Continue reading What to Write
So yesterday, I did a thing... I bought my ticket for Eroticon 2019!! I have been thinking, processing, analyzing, financially scrutinizing, and managing my anxiety over traveling alone abroad for months. I finally just bit the bullet and bought the ticket. I am so excited, and also more nervous than I have been about anything … Continue reading Eroticon 2019!!
Having my daughter, Ally, and her girlfriend, Fee, move in with me in June of this year was probably the best thing that could have happened. I was concerned that the three of us wouldn't live well together. Not for any specific reason. I remember moving back in with my Mom and while we love … Continue reading Moving back in with Mom!
I know, as sure as I am writing these words that I need to eat better. I have been thinking a lot about health issues lately. This year has been hard and as it comes to a close I try to be reflective but I just don't feel like it. I know all the things … Continue reading Confessions of Feelings
One of the easiest things to neglect is our health. We get busy with work, life, family, obligations. Many bloggers have talked about this, written about this, and we all ponder the "right" way. I personally feel there isn't a right or wrong way because we are all different. I don't think any of us … Continue reading Mental Health
As the holidays approach it brings back all the feelings of loss. The loss of my Dad in March and the loss of my relationship in August. Two very different relationships but the pain is shared and intertwined as this hateful year heads toward a close. Every day I miss my Dad and as the … Continue reading When?
So this is more of a venting blog than anything else. So be warned, I'm grippy! I've been sick this past week. I have managed to live to 53 without experiencing a UTI. I have had irritational bladder issues after surgeries and childbirth. That burning feeling from having a catheter removed. Those kinds of things. … Continue reading Doctors feeling awkward.
I have experienced sex without consent. Looking back now, more times than I care to remember. My first sexual experience was with a boy that I barely knew. We went to the bedroom and were just going to "mess around". He was just going to "finger" me. He wasn't going to do anything I didn't … Continue reading Consent
It had been a long two weeks. The death of her father was unexpected. No death is ever easy even when it is anticipated. This one hit hard. Her mother had buried her first father after a heart attack and now her second husband dies the same way. Making sense of it was not possible. … Continue reading Sorry for your Loss
I had another post planned for today. I have a list of things that I want to write about but the writing didn't come easy this weekend. I had planned to write all day yesterday but Saturday brought some emotional baggage that pretty much crippled me. I was in bed for most of yesterday. It … Continue reading Unexpected Love notes